So we never actually settled on a max. number of guests, but since my future hubby's family is from out of state, we figured not a lot of them would be coming so we'd have a small wedding; probably under 100. So to make the number a little bigger, I decided to invite a few of my co-workers. Well, ALL of my co-workers got really involved with helping me plan, and to be honest I do like them all, soI broke down and had an "open invite for all" and posted a "sign up sheet" at the office. I know this may be tacky, but I just didn't know how to get everyone's addresses since I knew a few of them wouldn't want to come and I didn't want people feeling left out. Now, as it turns out a lot more than I expected put their names on the list, plus a couple people that I never even hung out with before outside of work. And now to top it off, I got word that a lot of my future family are planning on coming for the wedding! So now our guest list is definitely over 100 which we were really trying to avoid. So is there a nice way to let some of my co-workers know I can't really have them all come? (mainly, just the ones I don't really like or hang out with). I feel so awful but this whole plan just kind of blew up in my face...