July 2012 Weddings

For those still waiting on lots of RSVP's

FI and I spent the afternoon calling lots of people yesterday who we had not received an RSVP from (we were waiting on nearly half still).  It was a bit frustrating that so many people just didnt bother to send it back, for no good reason but laziness.  This morning I woke up to the BEST email!  It was from a couple who are FI's friends.  

 Hey guys,

While cleaning the kitchen, I swept out from under the fridge the RSVP that I thought J had sent last week. Apparently it had fallen off the fridge and both of us thought the other had gotten it to the mailbox. We know and understand that it is past RSVP time and that that is a really big deal when planning/preparing for a wedding. If it is still possible, we would love to attend your reception. Both of us are sadly unable to get out of work for the ceremony. However, we completely understand if we are unable to attend because we failed to send in our RSVP in time. Please let us know either way so we can plan accordingly.

We are sorry for being pains in the ass! Whether we are able to attend or not, we are truly excited for you two and send nothing but our best.

Sorry again.. and thank you,


It seriously made me so happy to see that someone else understands how important RSVP's are!  (Most of the people that I talked to were just like oh, yeah we just never got it dropped into the mailbox.)  I thought it was so nice of her to email and let us know what had happened.  Of course we are not uninviting them from coming!  Anyhow...had to share that there are still some people out their who get the point of rsvping to weddings!  Yay! I haven't actually met the girlfriend in this relationship but I like her already!  :) 
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Re: For those still waiting on lots of RSVP's

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    That is so sweet of your guests to send the e-mail.  I can't believe you have so many unreturned rsvps. I think it's pretty common for people to put misplace their mail and not really think about having to send an rsvp card back. A friend of mine hasn't sent her rsvp back to one of our other friend's weddings simply because she's indecisive about what meal she wants at the wedding! How long does it take to make that decision? lol  Good luck with everything.  My rsvp date is June 22 and I missing 28 rsvps. Hopefully I receive a lot in the mail soon.
  • I shouldnt have been surprised.  No one ever RSVP's for stuff in my circle of friends.  Its extremely frustrating.  I wonder if its a regional thing where I live bc we have this happen for work events too.  
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  • ha that was super cute those are the people you want to come for sure!! 
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  • Ajmom, it must be regional! I'm from Iowa, my date has passed and I'm still waiting on 60% of my RSVPs!
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_july-2012-weddings_for-those-still-waiting-on-lots-of-rsvps?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:066005ef-215f-48b1-8655-328b41e07c52Discussion:1f3d51e9-c563-4210-976b-a3399e530cf2Post:3277339a-bee1-4dc5-8def-88b8bb43ee07">Re: For those still waiting on lots of RSVP's</a>:
    [QUOTE]Ajmom, it must be regional! I'm from Iowa, my date has passed and I'm still waiting on 60% of my RSVPs!
    Posted by FutureMrs07282012[/QUOTE]

    Psht. I'm from Ohio - and my deadline is today and I'm waiting on the same amount.

    NONE of Ricardo's family bothered to RSVP - except abuela (who flippin lives with us) and one of his sisters who said no.

    I seriously need to know - because we have about 30 people RSVPed. We need 75 to get out food tasting - and it's already scheduled for next week.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: For those still waiting on lots of RSVP's : Psht. I'm from Ohio - and my deadline is today and I'm waiting on the same amount. <strong>NONE of Ricardo's family bothered to RSVP - except abuela (who flippin lives with us) and one of his sisters who said no. I seriously need to know - because we have about 30 people RSVPed.</strong> We need 75 to get out food tasting - and it's already scheduled for next week.
    Posted by BrightFirefly[/QUOTE]


    That's a hispanic thing (I'm not like that but I can say it cause I'm hispanic, lol).  So many of my parents' friends haven'tsent the self-adressed, stamped envelope out but they've told my parents they're coming, UGH!!  Just send out the RSVP!

    Sorry AJsmom!
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: For those still waiting on lots of RSVP's : That's a hispanic thing (I'm not like that but I can say it cause I'm hispanic, lol).  So many of my parents' friends haven'tsent the self-adressed, stamped envelope out but they've told my parents they're coming, UGH!!  Just send out the RSVP! Sorry AJsmom!
    Posted by Nancy00714[/QUOTE]

    That's what Ricardo said. He's like "We don't even do RSVPs"

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  • My guests have until the 22nd and we are waiting on 67 more people to send theirs in. We have about 60% in so far. I really hope I don't have to play our guests mother and call them and ask where their rsvp card is. So far my Fi's family and friends are doing a much better job rsvping than my side!
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