A spin-off from the chit-chat thread...
How many of you are TTC, whether for the 1st time or not? What are some issues that crop/cropped up for you, and what advice would you share to those of us either trying or will be trying in the future?
My story...
I am 35 years old, my husband is 32. We were married in July and have been together 7 years. Over the years, we have spoken about having a family and the way we'd like to raise our future children, what we'd teach them and just in general hopes and dreams. My husband was baptized but was not raised in the Church. We both came to the decision together that our children will be baptized and raised Catholic. We share a lot of the same beliefs, so I am not concerned about conflicts. Our Priest encourages him to become more familiar with our religion, but no one is pressuring him, so he has been very open to discussions, attends Mass with me at times, and we both have been relieved that we share a very similar train of thought.
The only issue we're having is when to start trying. Of course, at 35, I am a bit anxious and reading "The Bump" has made me even more nervous and impatient...my husband wants to have more things set up financially and have our house put together more before we talk about it. I just feel that "perfect moment" does not exist. It has caused some tension at times between us, nothing serious, but it's clear we aren't on the same page here. We have a family wedding coming up next month that we are both very involved in, so my plan has been to wait until that is done, and have us sit down to talk it all out. I think now that it is more real, he's feeling stress about how it will all work.
I just thought it would be nice to have a thread here where people in the same boat could share their stories and offer any advice!