A while back I posted a vent about how my mom wasn't coming to my wedding bc her slug of a husband wasn't invited. Long story short he has done some horrible things and I don't like being around him, so after a big blow up I put my foot down and said he isn't coming to my (at that time future) wedding. 2 years later when I got engaged I stuck to my guns and said he wasn't invited.. So my mom said she wouldn't be attending without him.. there's been a few fights and a long time of silence... (we live in different states)...
Ok update... My mom called today and apologized for yelling at me the last time we spoke (April).. she also seemed to be seeing my point of view in the situation... She told me her douche of a husband had been telling her if she did attend my wedding solo she would "have to deal with the consequences" (meaning he might divorce her!) so thats why she had been sticking to not coming without him... but she said she realized that missing the wedding so that he would be happy would just make her sad and she was going to tell him that she is going to come to the wedding without him....
I'm trying hard not to get my hopes up bc she isn't the strongest person and might not stick to what she is saying she wants to do.. but I have my fingers crossed that she will be at the wedding...