We have about 110 people on our guestlist which we would love for them to see our ceremony but we can't afford to pay for 110 people at the reception. We've thought about just inviting close family members and close friends to the reception or asking all of the guests to pay for their plates. We are overwhelmed and we don't want to offend anyone; we may even elope so that we don't have to deal with anyone snarling. This is our first (and only) wedding, we don't want to spend a fortune on the wedding but would rather spend it on our honeymoon. What should we do?