my future sister in law is also getting married, slightly before me, and she keeps going on and on about how she loves her dress, which is awesome, i'm glad she found something she loves, but as she gushes about her dress she keeps bashing lace and talking about how its sooo old fashioned and terrible, she hates the way it looks etc. It's slightly annoying because she knows that the dress i've found for myself has lace in it, and i really love it,(in fact the lace is what i love about it) but her constant negative talk about lace is making me worry about my choice, so is lace on wedding dresses out?