Well after nearly needing to annull my marriage today, the gray skies have brightened up. Both figuratively and litereally.
1. Forcast has changed to a 10% likelyhood of rain as that it seams the storm is moving faster and will arrive on Saturday not sunday. Good for wedding, bad for running around. I'll take it tho
2. Nearly decapitated the hubbie today. Why say you? Because this fool tellls me he wants to go to visit his mom right after the reception... ummm NO. I mean it ... NO. We have now had 3 count them 3 wedding dates in less tahn 30 days and ALL of them can not be about your mom. ... nah forget the period on that statement... !!!!! exclamations. You mom was nearing death and septic so, we cancelled the wedding. Then, you wanted to Squeeze our marriage in, between your visits to your mom. I understood BOTH of those things but now, MIL has been discharged and is doing much better and apparently there is no one to stay with her this weekend. SO this dude volunteers himself on the day that is SUPPOSED to be a make up for our wedding being ruined to begin with. No NO NO !Then he proposed going Sat night and coming back Sunday morning.. NO.. I bought that bucket of sheet the first time when u said the reason for that was that u wanted to see your mom on your wedding day... no no no.
I sent this man a host of messages to the affect of him knowing how much this means to me and that there are 52 weekends in a year and this is the only one Im really asking for. And I told his but that what ever he decides to do this Sunday will plant a seed in our marriage. Whatever it is that grows from it is his responsibility. I have been understanding, I have been patient, I have been supportive but DAMNIT I deserve a day like any other bride, sick mom or not. Figure it out, pay some one to stay but u be here for me on Sunday else I will take how you treat me as instruction as to how to treat you. That when your needs and desires arrise they are an after thought to me to my family. She is better now, there is no need for all of this.
You know this fool got the nerve to txt me : I love you babe, God willing things will get better"
I lit his butt up for that to. I told him "THIS is not Gods will, this is your free will. you will do what you want to do where this is concerned. This isnt an unexpected pregnancy or loss of pregnancy, lay off or hurricane. this is YOU making a choice"
So after a few hours I get a txt that says "what do you want to happen" I replied "what I want to happen is to be WITH my husband ON my wedding day, for the FULL day and not have him subject to IF some1 shows up to relieve him to decide if he is showing up to our wedding day"
About an hour after thant, I got a mssg that he will go friday night into saturday and will be around after work on saturday and sunday and monday. So, I took off monday.
Txt back : ok. I wish you didnt have to put me through all this crap. You should have just known how important this was to me and known you needed to make arrangements. Why does it have to be all that? I love you to. Thank you.
