I got married about 1 month ago. My Fiance and I had been together for over a decade. For at least 10 years, when people have asked about us getting married, we have ALWAYS said that we were going to go away and elope at some point. In fact, we finally did get married and opted to have a small ceremony with just our parents.
We had announcements made and sent to our families. Once I was sure that all of the announcements had had time to get where they were going, I changed my name/status on Facebook and posted a few pictures of just my husband and I.
Everyone seemed happy and unsurprised based on the responses, except my sister in law. She posted "I didn't even know you had set a date yet" and "well, if you had told us, we would have sent a card". I can't tell if I am reading too much into her responses, but I feel like she is passive aggressively expressing that we should have told her in advance for some reason.
She and I are semi in contact via facebook but we don't particularly talk on the phone-maybe once a year, and we see each other about once a year. I'm trying to decide if I should just let it go and not say anything, or if I should call her and smooth things over. I need poeple outside the situation to give some perspective.
Thanks