So, I'm planning a second marriage to my ex-husband. We were 19 at our first wedding and in the 10 years we were married had a lot of trials. We were military, he was deployed often, we had a miscarriage that he wasn't there for. The transition from miltary to civilian life was very difficult for him and I wasn't prepared to handle it...needless to say, we divorced three years ago. Since then we have both recieved counceling and are doing much better, not only on our own, but together.
I guess my point of this all, is how do we go about handling all this? He did the whole proposal thing, engagement ring...we would like to have a nice ceremony and a big party but don't know really what the rules/social etiquett of it all is. Or do we say screw it, and do what we want?? Help??