I had to create an AE because, to put a long story short, I've recently become extremely concerned about my internet privacy (which directly affects my real-life safety).
Im so very paranoid about it that I dont even want to identify who I am too clearly. FWIW, my "we're planning for this date" wedding date (which, BTW, he finally agreed to set in stone! Yay!) is in my screen name (which is the nickname he calls me) If it is still unclear, please PM me (let me know if you do) and I will disclose.
Thank you for understanding ladies