Spoke with mama minm last night.
Spoke with sister again this AM. Four docs have already called mom. The oncologist says they don't mess around and she was speaking the truth.
Petscan on the 17th, appt with doc on the 24th to discuss the scan and treatment plan. I fly in on the 23rd and will stay through the weekend. I think it will do a lot for me and my anxiety to meet the doc and be there when the treatment plan is all layed out.
Grandpa's 94th bday is next month. Both out-of-town sisters (me and the youngest) are planning on flying in, so we can all be together for that. My mom has taken over g-pa's finances, so now middle minm sis is going to have to take care of mom and g-pa (uncle doesn't do his fair share). G-pa finally admitted he shouldn't be driving anymore. He wants to go to all of my mom's appts. We're going to be cramming the entire family into these dr's offices.
I plan on asking mom if I can take over g-pa's finances for her, since she does everything online and it is something I can actually do remotely. I also plan on asking her to sign a medical release form, so I can speak directly to the drs.
I stayed home from work today. I've called mom again, but got her vm.
On a happier note....
H's minniversary present was delivered to my work today and my present arrived to the house. H has smuggled it in. He is also going to take me to look at some jewerly, too...he always buys me necklaces.
We are going to dinner tomorrow night with his gay cw and his partner. His cw invited us over to their house for a glass of wine before hand. How gay! I love it. Yay for gay.
Thanks for all of the t+ps and vibes guys. I really appreciate you listening and your support. I cried a lot last night. I stayed up later than H and ended falling asleep on the couch with Woody. Some time during the night, he pooed on the carpet. It was a nice present for H this morning.
