I am booking a hotel room for me and my BM to get in ready in the day of the wedding. I will be staying in the room the night before and I have invited my BM's to stay the night with me the night before. I am not requiring them to stay the night, but they can if they would like.
How do I politely let them know that I just want them there in the hotel room with me (the night before if they want to stay and the day of while we're getting ready)...and I would appreciate it if they didn't bring along their kids (a couple of them have very young children/babies) or SO's. I don't want to offend them but I'm afraid if I don't say something, they might think it's ok to bring them along and then it makes it awkward... Honestly, I just want to take that time before the wedding to just relax and enjoy the moments before the craziness of the day sets in. I don't want babies crying or running around the room and I don't want 20 people just standing there watching us get ready. I feel like it would get too hectic and it would stress me out. Your advice is appreciated. Thanks!
Married since October 14, 2012 - Best Day Ever!
