So my Mom and FMIL gave me their invite list a few weeks ago and my mom has 65 people (after she cut her list) and FMIL has 85 people on it!
I've been told by several friends that their lists should be pretty even. The same people also asked who was paying for the weddig, my parents and my future hubby and I are the one's pitching in. His parents are only paying for the rehersal dinner. They want to go the traditional route when it comes to who pays. (which brings up a whole host of other things they should pay for in that respect, but some other time)
It was advised to me that if future hubby's parents aren't paying for reception and such then they should be the ones to cut their list or offer to pay for the extras. I am asking about this now b/c the moms, future hubby and I are getting together to go over the lists and I want some help! I think FMIL needs to re-evaluate her list.
Future hubby does come from a large family on his dad's side and I want all family to come. I don't want the random neighbors kids to come, or some people whose kids wedding they went to 5 years ago...that's a little much for me.
HELP!
Thanks