My fiance and are having major trouble choosing between two reception sites: Landmark Center and Summit Manor, both in St. Paul.
Here is our conundrum: We are looking at a Friday or Saturday in Oct. 2011. My fiance's grandparents' and great-grandparents' anniversaries are both on the Saturday but only Summit Manor is available that Saturday, so we would have to go with the Friday if we went with Landmark.
Summit Manor provides a lot for us: catering, linens, chairs, etc, even centerpieces, but we would have to bring in all our own beverages (they provide a bar, glassware, ice, and bartenders). This would bring Summit Manor quite a bit above our budget, so that our reception (rental, food/beverage, cake) would cost about 2/3 of our wedding budget. We are also looking at about 185-200 guests, so I am concerned it may be a little cramped in a mansion.
Landmark Center only provides the space, tables and chairs, and bar services. We would have to find a caterer, but this would allow us a lot more flexibility, plus lots of vendors would be cheaper on a Friday. But I don't think we would be able to offer an open bar for anyone besides the bridal party, given the cost. We also got engaged right in front of Landmark Center, so that spot is pretty special for us. But then we wouldn't have the same anniversary as both my fiance's grandparents and great-grandparents, something that would also be very special. I'm not too concerned about a Friday wedding being inconvenient because I figure if people want to be there, they will make it work, and plus it is MEA weekend, so all (MN) kids are off school.
Any thoughts? Any experience with either site? Any advice? I've become far too obsessed with this and need some outside, objective opinions! Thank you!
