Here's the picture:
Fiance (boyfriend of 8 years) is a confirmed Catholic. I'm not a particular denomination. I want to become Catholic and start our family under one reglion.
The problem:
My mom "put her foot down" and said no contribution and no father walking me down the isle if the wedding is in a Catholic church.
Here's the confusion:
My parents don't go to church. And they keep suggesting we become Lutheran as a "happy medium" between Non-Denominational and Catholic.
On top of it all ... both of my parents were baptised Catholic as infants and they've jumped between religions throughout the last 20 years.
I want my family to be one, consistent religion.
Bottom Line:
It's the label that bothers them. And they're ignorant. So reason and negotiation is not an option.
What should I do?
A) Take out a loan for the $ my parents are taking back? And move on without them.
Try to reason with my unreasonable parents? (Trust me ... this won't be easy)
C) Try to convince my new in-laws that we should reduce the guest count since the budget was cut in half.
D) Threaten my parents the way they've threatened me? (Really not an option ... just being funny)
E) Your suggestions!