I sent out invites over a month ago. RSVP deadline was April 29th. I'm still waiting to receive a quarter of the RSVPs. How hard is it? All you have to do is write your name, check a box, and seal the envelope! The envelopes are addressed and stamped for god's sake. Just take the two freakin' minutes and do a bride a favor! Ugh!
Re: Why can't people RSVP?
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Now, I realize why that'll drive a bride crazy, but then I was very nonchalant about it.
Usually a call from the bride would prompt me to get my act in gear, though, so hopefully that will work for you. Have your FI make the calls for his side, and you can hopefully divide and conquer. Good luck!
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