I just started this process and I have heard from a lot of people that the best way to keep costs down is to find a venue that you can just rent out and bring your own catering, alchol, ect, such as country clubs, parks or museums. But I am having a really hard time finding any of these types of locations in the South Florida area. My fiance's dad for instance got married at the Spanish Monastary and it is beautiful, but we are not going to get married at the same place as his dad. Does anyone have any ideas?