August 2012 Weddings

Check and a break down!

Well, I had my first breakdown today!
Luckily it was my fiance` got me through it. We finished up our unity candle and I just started thinking of EVERYTHING that STILL needs to be done! UGH! Which isn't a whole lot, but still I got frazzled. I have been trying to get him to help with little projects since February and didn't get anywhere, now he wants to go out of town a week before our wedding and I just want to get everything completed before our big day is here! We agreed that we will work on our projects over the next week, which should get us done with everything and than the pressure will be off, somewhat. I just need to remember to take deep breathes!

Re: Check and a break down!

  • I had a break down a few months ago. I recommend making a list of EVERYTHING you need to do. This way you can visualize how much is left and see when you make progress. Just remember if its important it will get done before the wedding and if it doesn't get done it wasn't important enought to get upset about :)
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  • I've had mine too. We made the mistake of adding major house projects to the wedding to do list. his parents are visiting for the first time and staying here. But looks like its all coming together. I agree with the list it helped me prioritize. Now if we can take the deep breaths and make it through the next month.
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    [QUOTE]I've had mine too. <strong>We made the mistake of adding major house projects</strong> to the wedding to do list. his parents are visiting for the first time and staying here. But looks like its all coming together. I agree with the list it helped me prioritize. Now if we can take the deep breaths and make it through the next month.
    Posted by m tulli[/QUOTE]

    Same here we are currently still working on the home we will move in right after the wedding so that on top of wedding to do´s also brought on my break down. Thankfully my future MIL is an angel and asked me for a list of wedding to dos and she took half of them and said to me: " wedding planning should be fun and memorable for both of you, whenever you feel like this again just come to me and I will help." can you say awwww! I love her as much as I love her son! lol :)
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  • mrsR12mrsR12 member
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    break down here too
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