So FI and I are trying to decide where to get married... We want a destination wedding, however we just discussed this last night and his family will probably not be able to afford to go (even though we're planning early and giving them a few years notice to save..........

*frustrated*), unless we pay which isn't fair to my family! So now we're looking into something closer to home. As some of you may know, my family lives in southeast Michigan and his family lives in Coldwater, OH, so we're looking for something in middle to northern Ohio, so it's more convenient for FI's family. Now here's my problem... I've been trying to find an all-inclusive venue, where food, drink, cake, linens, etc. are all included in one price, to relieve some stress (considering the DW flop is pretty stressful as is) and because I don't live there so it's even harder to find individual vedors. However, all of the venues I've seen online (we live in Michigan and can't check out Ohio venues just yet) that are all-inclusive are pretty hick and shabby. I was also hoping for maybe a B&B or nice hotel venue to accomodate my OOT guests. Any suggestions/websites would be very much appreciated! Thank you everyone for all the help you've been giving me!!!