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Future sister in law issues

melblzmelblz
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I'm getting married in a year and a half and wanted to keep my wedding party small (this is my second marriage)  I've been with my fiance for two years but have known him for about 4 years.  I've tried many times to be friends with his sister but have found it impossible.  About two weeks ago she sent me text basically accusing me of reading a text she sent my fiance and told me to stay out of their business.  She also posted something on facebook that was also intended as a dig towards me.....so basically she started all of this because she thought i read a text she sent to her brother which i didn't that i later found out that the text said she didn't want anything to do with being in the wedding.  She basically started a fight that lasted two days between myself, her and her brother.  She was so rude that my fiance said he didn't want to speak with her anymore.  He has a nephew that he loves dearly and he has tried to reach out to speak to her to get to the bottom of things but now she will not speak with him.  I know the wedding is a year and a half away but I feel like this is going to put a strain on things.  Any suggestions of how to help him fix things? (mind you this isn't the first time she has tried doing something like this)
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  • felicia220felicia220 member
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    edited December 2011
    If the text was about how she doesn't want to be involved in the wedding, why is that an issue for you to read? Wouldn't your FI end up telling you what she said anyway, being that it is wedding related, and thus very much your business.  She sounds like a peach.  My advice, stay out of it, let your FI handle his family, if she wants to be crazy there is nothing you can do about it.  I promise, the more you get involved the uglier this will get.   


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  • Butter CookieButter Cookie member
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    edited December 2011
    How old is she? Why aren't you just ignoring this insolent child?
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  • PrettyGirl815PrettyGirl815
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_future-sister-law-issues-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:47Discussion:16604264-a23a-4ef2-938e-689d2c5720c7Post:2b69424e-1fd9-4e66-8684-0370dae3bd54">Re: Future sister in law issues</a>:
    [QUOTE]If the text was about how she doesn't want to be involved in the wedding, why is that an issue for you to read? Wouldn't your FI end up telling you what she said anyway, being that it is wedding related, and thus very much your business.  She sounds like a peach.  My advice, stay out of it, let your FI handle his family, if she wants to be crazy there is nothing you can do about it.  I promise, the more you get involved the uglier this will get.   
    Posted by felicia220[/QUOTE]

    I agree with PP and if I were you I would tread very lightly. This is something FI should handle with his sister--at least initially.
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