Aloha! I'm about 6 weeks from our wedding and it suddenly occurred to me that I haven't got anything special for my Dad to do.
Ours is a casual, but relatively traditional wedding with reception at a beautiful outdoor location in Hawaii (our home). This is my second marriage and I'm having my sons both walk me down the aisle (they're in their 20's). My mom is a behind-the-scenes type and will be helping me get dressed. Future MIL is introducing us at the reception and my grandmother is saying grace before dinner. My dad's wife is helping to video the wedding.
I feel like I need to find something special for Dad to do. I'm his only daughter and first marriage was at the courthouse (bad marriage). Now that I'm doing the whole wedding thing, I want to include him but don't know how.
FI suggested having dad give a toast, but my family is all non-drinkers and so toasting is a bit out of our element. Appreciate any ideas!