This still burns me, a month later, and I don't know why. On our wedding day, DH's cousin and FI were late to the ceremony. I was running behind schedule about 10 mins or so. When I came down the stairs to the main lobby of the hotel, I saw his cousin and FI walking in through the side door by the check in desk, like it didn't matter. I thought to myself "WTF! Are you kidding me?!" I put it out of my mind and continued about my day.
I just keep thinking how rude it was and that they would have missed the ceremony had I been on time. Or, would have walked in during the ceremony, which the coordinator probably wouldn't have allowed. They had no excuse, in my book, to be late. They had arrived to the island the day before and were already at the hotel. They didn't have to walk that far! I'm not sure why this is still burning me inside.
Also, the JP kind of ruined a part of the ceremony that was kind of important and symbolic to me. During the ring exchange, we had added in a bit about the e-ring. Well, he instructed DH to put the wedding ring on my finger. Then there was, what seemd like a super long pause, before he said the bit about the e-ring being a promise fullfilled, etc. There was NO need for a pause. I felt like the e-ring part was lost and didn't seem important. Both rings were on my finger before he went on with the e-ring part. This makes me a little upset, and if we could change one thing, we would have gotten someone else to do the ceremony.
Does anyone else have a situation, big or small, that happened that you can't seem to let go of?