OKay, so I'm a vegan, my finace is omni (like most of guests) and there will be at least one severely allergenic person there (peanut/tree nut/dairy/ wheat/eggs/etc...)
I have found a place that does vegan wedding cakes and am leaning toward a buffet selection and probably a safe plated dinner for the kid with allergies
I realize it's my wedding so obviously I should have food to eat but from an economical standpoint should I get veggie dishes or should I just order a few veggie apps and, I dunno, a plated dinner for myself?
any ideas on how this usually goes at weddings, lol? haven't been to a ton myself and this is a first for both of us.