We were planning on getting married on September 1, 2012 and we were inviting 210 people. We are now getting married on April 28, 2012. We are having a very small intimate ceremony and reception. We are only having our parents, siblings, grandparents, my two neices, and his nephew. I could not be any more excited about this change. I am so much more relaxed and am so happy. Plus, our countdown went from over 300 days to under 200 days.

My parents are considering throwing us a very casual reception in their backyard a few weeks after our wedding. We aren't inviting any of our aunts and uncles to the actual wedding (if we did invite other family members our guest list would be approximately 100 people... I have a large family) and some of them have asked my parents if we are doing a seperate reception. Opinions on this second reception?
Also, are any of you hiring a videographer or know of a good videographer? My photographer is getting me some information on different videographers he knows but I wanted to see if any of you have had any good or bad experiences. We were not originally planning on hiring a videographer but would like to now so we can show our families our ceremony and wedding since they will not be attending.