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so over ALL wedding planning...

b2010b2010
in California-Inland Empire
I am so done with planning my wedding. I have six months left and feel like nothing has been done! My fiances sisters are way too "helpful" and have changed everything I have been asking for. They changed my place, my tables, my quest list, my bar, my dresses, my flowergirl dresses, and now they want me to "CONSIDER" different colors, as if I had a choice! My fiance says im too sensitive and they are just trying to help, what do i do???
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  • amberg321amberg321
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    edited December 2011
    I would not let them change anything! Its your wedding and you should stand up to them and kindly ask them to to back off and respect your decisions. If you dont and continue to let them take over your wedding plans then you only have yourself to blame.
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  • desi2002desi2002 member
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    edited December 2011
    tell them to back off. its your day.
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  • Kasi80Kasi80
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    edited December 2011
    I agree with the others.  if you don't step in now you will regret the wedding you didn't get to plan.  Tell them that while you appreciate their iput, you have a vision for your wedding and would like to stick to that.  Thank them for their continuing assistance but make sure you let them know you want this wedding to reflect you and your FI, not what they envision.
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  • SandraRay2008SandraRay2008 member
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    edited December 2011
    I would tell them to back off. Its your wedding so your the one letting them change everything your the bride and have the final say so you just need to stand up for yourself.
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  • SarahB0427SarahB0427 member
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    edited December 2011

    Tell them thanks for their help but, you have YOUR dream wedding in mind that you would like it to be and while you appreciate their input that at the end of the day it is your wedding and your vision.

    I feel your pain though...

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  • mrs.payne2010mrs.payne2010 member
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    edited December 2011
    its your day, do what YOU WANT!!! remember its what you want and like not whateveryone else wants.
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  • emilypeachemilypeach member
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    edited December 2011
    yepp stand up to them and don't let anyone make you feel like you don't deserve what you really want, even something minor.


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  • june112011bridejune112011bride member
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    edited December 2011
    If they suggest something just politely say "No, I don't really like that, Ill stick with my idea" or something like that and just leave it at that.  If they press the issue then tell them that you have a vision of your wedding day and you wanna stick to it.  You appreciate their help but you don't want things changed.  And if they keep bugging, tell FI to control his sisters =)
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