We wanted it to be just immediate family- all expenses paid for them (about 14 people).
But how do we handle NOT offending the rest of the family- ones you haven't seen in years. I don't mind if someone else wants to come, but I'm not willing to pay for their trip. My FI says if they come at all, we HAVE to pay for them.
Should we keep it immediate family ONLY. Or send out invites to everyone and just let immediate family know they're covered?
What did you brides do? Who pays for what in a DW wedding?