Ok this is what happened. I haven't talked to my BFF in about two weeks. She was in a real funky mood (her and her man were having problems). When this happens she just shuts down. We also have been distant because she is a hater and everything about the wedding she would say something negative so I just stopped talking to her about it. We both work at the same part-time job on the weekends. This weekend she was all bubbly and said my FI texted her and asked her was she still alive because we hadn't seen her. My alarms immediatedly went up when she said my FI texted her and he didnt tell me about it. So I bring it up to the FI, "BFF says you texted her to see if she was alive?" He immediately was pissed and said she texted him about a surprise bridal shower (I had no idea) someone else was planning for me and feels she even mentioned the text so I would confront him and ruin the surprise. FI was like well now you know, act surprised. He feels she did this on purpose because she wasn't the one planning it. Im like (ok halos off ladies) that's some real f-ed up ish! If you say my man was texting you, you know damn well I am going to ask him about it and he would tell me the real deal. Damn haters I swear they make me sick. Oh well, at least i'm having a shower yay!! lol
