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How to be ask a bridesmaid

anime4life4uanime4life4u member
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here one question
one of my bridesmaid lives really far away and is in a new college .
I do ask her not to be a bridesmaid for my weding
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Re: How to be ask a bridesmaid

  • Milsey32Milsey32
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    Please think before you type. I do not understand the situation you are in, or what the question is. Members of TK are usually happy to help, but it's difficult when your post does not make much sense. 
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  • DramaGeekDramaGeek member
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    If I'm reading this right, you want to kick a bridesmaid out of the wedding because she moved too far away?  Kicking a BM out is a relationship ending move. It's really not ok to do, but if you choose to do so, know that you will be ending your friendship for good.
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  • sarah0725sarah0725
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    How did you think you came's to seen out when you are wery old?
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  • beatlesgirl25beatlesgirl25
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    The OP is so incoherent that it's made Sarah0725 unintelligible. What is the world coming to?

    And to answer the OP: Yes?



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  • beatlesgirl25beatlesgirl25
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    I think so, CS. I was just catching up on the "my friend's wedding is too close to mine, waaaah" thread and got that deja vu feeling all over again.



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    Taco cat: Always a palindrome. ALWAYS, okay J&K?

    "cool......insult my size 2 body or my natural brown hair...or the fact that my parents own a country club, I have no budget for a wedding, and I have horses. I really dont care. Its better then having roots." ~ futurepivko
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  • sklink0486sklink0486 member
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    Is English your 1st language? I'm sorry, but I can't understand your post either obviously and this was my first thought. 
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  • jrkjpfjrkjpf member
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    Why would you ask her to NOT be a bridesmaid because she is in college or moved far away? Only logical reason that comes to mind is that she might not be able to afford the trip, dress, accessories. But wouldn't that be up to her, and not you? Or are you worried that she won't be there to run to your every wedding need?

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  • badkittyctbadkittyct
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    My interpretation of this garble of words is "I want to kick out my bridesmaid because she lives too far away." Um, if you never want to be friends with her again then sure, kick her out. If you already asked her to be you BM and she accepted then it is her responsibility to show up and buy a dress. If you kick her out then you are -1 friend.
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