Project Husband

Re: Project Husband

• bethsmiles member

  

  October 2010 edited December 2011

  I heard about this a couple months ago. I think if she posted here she would get ripped apart, call us mean, and then leave. She sounds pretty crazy to me. Too much focus on a wedding and not enough on establishing a relationship with a person. Not many guys are into girls that have the wedding planned on the first date lol

  
  

  
  

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• JessGriff member

  

  October 2010 edited December 2011

  That is beyond disturbing.  I'm questioning whether she tells the men she dates about her pet "project," and if so, how quickly they're out the door? or if not, how she's planning to prod him into such a short-term engagement... Now I have something to do while the FH watches his precious baseball team - I'm going to thoroughly research this woman and her project.
  
  FH has to put in his two cents for her chosen prey: "I'd excuse myself to the bathroom and run the *&$@! away."

  

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• zipis1 member

  

  October 2010 edited December 2011

  She tells every guy she goes on a date with about it, and yep. Most don't come back for a second date. She claims a few have come back for second and thirds, but none have "stuck" obviously.
  
  She also claims that feedback for the whole thing has been almost entirely positive save for a few, something that I find kind of hard to believe. And if it is true that so many people think this is supertotallyawesome, I weep.
  

  
  
  

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• SeaTea02

  

  October 2010 edited December 2011

  now THIS is 100% BSC

  
  

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• GreenPepperBurger

  

  October 2010 edited December 2011

  Oh dear.

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• coastiegrl25 member

  

  October 2010 edited December 2011

  I'm just curious to see when that day comes and she still doesn't have a man...Is she still going to show up since everything is paid for?

  

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• musikbx

  

  October 2010 edited December 2011

  The whole idea of trying to marry 'someone, anyone, it doesn't really matter who as long as I get my pretty wedding' is effin crazy.
  
  The fact that our (presuming she's American) culture places so much emphasis on weddings, to the point where she feels the need to do this, makes me really sad.
  
  Though she seems to have embraced her crazy... so, at least there's that.

  
  
  

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• bethsmiles member

  

  October 2010 edited December 2011

  In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_project-husband?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:47918013-29e1-42c2-9c97-d73017a3cd6cPost:2dff0e0c-cb95-4786-a159-5c1db599b146">Re: Project Husband</a>:
  [QUOTE]I'm just curious to see when that day comes and she still doesn't have a man...Is she still going to show up since everything is paid for?
  Posted by coastiegrl25[/QUOTE]
  
  She said she will still show up and just throw a big party. And I bet thats what happens. I don't think there is any guy who isn't going to run away from this sort of BSCness. She seems like a sweet person but this is just crazy. She needs to drop the whole thing.

  
  

  
  

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• AudgiePodge member

  

  October 2010 edited December 2011

  In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_project-husband?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:47918013-29e1-42c2-9c97-d73017a3cd6cPost:2dff0e0c-cb95-4786-a159-5c1db599b146">Re: Project Husband</a>:
  [QUOTE]I'm just curious to see when that day comes and she still doesn't have a man...Is she still going to show up since everything is paid for?
  Posted by coastiegrl25[/QUOTE]
  
  
  Me too. I'm also curious if the vendors will work with her if the date comes up and won't be getting married, since she has been getting some publicity with this stunt.

  I'm not good at feelings.
  
  

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• zipis1 member

  

  October 2010 edited December 2011

  In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_project-husband?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:47918013-29e1-42c2-9c97-d73017a3cd6cPost:2dff0e0c-cb95-4786-a159-5c1db599b146">Re: Project Husband</a>:
  [QUOTE]I'm just curious to see when that day comes and she still doesn't have a man...Is she still going to show up since everything is paid for?
  Posted by coastiegrl25[/QUOTE]
  
  She also said (and her vendors have agreed to it) that if she doesn't get married that day she'll donate it all to another couple so that "<em>someone</em> gets married that day."
  
  Cue BF and I saying we need to become best friends with this chick STAT <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-innocent.gif" border="0" alt="Innocent" title="Innocent" />

  
  
  

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• Vasheba

  

  October 2010 edited December 2011

  It's a giant publicity stunt. She's just a blogger with a gimmick, trying to get a book deal. i give her mad props for the interesting idea though.

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• mzm153

  

  October 2010 edited December 2011

  I'm not joking. I saw with my own eyes when I was a little girl, a woman in a talk show on TV dressed as a bride and telling the host she wasn't leaving the show until she married a dude, that I didn't even think was her boyfriend. I didn't finish watching the show since I went to the mall with my grandma in the middle of it. I wouldn't be surprised if the dude refused to marry her and that she would have to be dragged kicking and screaming out of the show. I still remember how that made my day.

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