Hi everyone, I just had a question for anyone who has gone somewhere to get legally married and later had their actual wedding with friends and family. I tried asking questions in some other forums and the ladies that messaged back were not so friendly. My wife and I got married 2 years ago in DC and we are planning our actual ceremony and reception for 2016 on our 6th "wedding" anniversary because it's the next time it falls on a Saturday. Has anyone else got married and then waited to have their big ceremony? I wanted to do it then but money was an issue and NC (we live in south eastern NC) isn't exacty gay friendly. I view this as my actual wedding since we didn't have anyone but us and the officiant the first time around. What should I and shouldn't I do as far as preparing for the event as it gets closer? As in bridal showers and stuff like that, I don't necessarily need/want enormous amounts of gifts but I do want to experience what most other brides get to. Thanks in advance and please no rude comments, I got enough of that in the straight people forums.