I found out last night that my two best friends do not want to live with me next year. I currently live with one of them now and we have not had any issues more than just oops we both bought eggs or i'm going to go to bed so can you move out the living room. I was really hurt because I thought things were going so well. I don't know their reasoning yet. They told me that they loved me and it had nothing to do with our friendship and that it had to do with timing and living together.
I have had a lot of bad friendships in the past, but I have become very close with these two girls. We had talked about living together for this year, but one of them decided to become an RA for the year. I have opened up a lot to them. It's really difficult for me to separate friendship from roommates when I currently live with one of them and I thought everything was great.
I can't think of a reason aside from my SO and the fact that I will be wedding planning soon. They both love him though and we told me roommate to just let me or us know if there was ever an issue. He comes for dinner about twice a week and sometimes also comes over a third time. We try to split our time between places and locations (as I live on the north end of chicago and he is downtown).
Has anyone ever had this issue before?