i have a few issues I need advice on, any help is appreciated.
My FI and I were all set to marry march 17 2012, the venue was paid in full (we got it 10% off since we paid in full, seemed like a great idea at the time) the save the dates were sent out and my dress was picked. We just got word that he will be deployed on our wedding date. We thought since he just got back that we would be safe for at least a year, but it happens.
Thank God for military clauses. We were able to save the hall, but we would have to get whatever left over dates they have. But my dress is already in production. I could lose the deposit which was 60% of the dress, or I can have it finished and have it sitting in a closet for a year? any suggestions?
we decided that we will get married before this next deployment and have a church wedding when he returns. However, his family cannot afford to come to the civil ceremony on short notice. They live out of state and are very tight on money. My FMIL thinks i purposely planned it this way so that she wouldn't be able to come to the wedding, and the only way I can correct this is by paying for her and 10 other guests to come to our CC. How do I tell her no?
My parents still want to invite the whole family down to the court house to see the CC. Is it just me, or does it seem rude to have my family there and not his?