So we sent out invites on Saturday and we were so excited people started getting them yesterday.
FBIL (who is the best man) calls FI yesterday and tells him "I can't make it to your wedding, I have to work.". Then FBIL demand we change the date or time or the whole faimly can't make it and no one is going to miss work for us. (I completely lost it while standing in Target looking for shoes for my son.)
FI called his dad who offered to work for FBIL (he owns a business that FBIL works for) which means FFIL wouldn't be coming to the wedding. Alsohe says FSMIL cant come either.
We called the venue today and they were willing to change the time but I am so beyond furious especially since everyone was told MONTHS ahead of time that it would be a friday afternoon wedding and we spent a ton of money on invitations and I now have to contact every guest to let them know of the change and hope they don't forget and show up 2 hours early. Also we had intended to take everyone rock climbing which is right next to our venue but now it will be dark by the time the wedding is over. FFIL offered to bring shop lights to help light the venue which is not at all what I want and completely takes from what we had planned. Honestly I almost called the whole thing off yesterday and told FI we'll just go to the courthouse and skip the wedding.
It's also not like this is the first time FBIL has pulled this kinda stunt. FI has been married before and at his second wedding FI sent out invites to his parents and his brother, FBIL didn't give the invite to his parents and so FIs mom sat with her friend across the street and watched the wedding through binoculars all because she didnt think she was invited because FBIL told her she wasn't. FBIL didn't even show up either!
I don't even know how I am going to handle it if he's already pulling this crap 2 months away, I can imagine it will only get worse.
Re: Changing the time *long vent*
101 Are ready to party
18 Can't make it
1 Are keeping me on the edge of my seat wondering