My fiance and I are having a non-mass Catholic wedding, outside of the church and officiated by a deacon. My fiance is Jewish and we are trying to come up with readings that do not directly mention Jesus. He is fine with the fact that we are having a Catholic ceremony, but some of his family memebers are a little sensitive to it. Any ideas?
We are also trying to come up with ways to pay respect to his religion without offending it. We were basically told that most of the things that they have/do at a Jewish wedding conflict and we have to pick one or the other. As the Rabbi told us, there is no such thing as a "Cashew" (Catholic/Jew).
We already have all our decisions made for the future as far as our family (we are raising them Catholic) and teaching them about Judaism, but not practicing. My fiance will continue to attend temple during High Holy Days as he does, and we will stand along side of him. Its mainly the ceremony that has us confused!