Hey Ladies,
I am having trouble with my MOH.
For 3 months now she has not been returning mine or my bridesmaids calls or emails. If she does they are breif emails and avoids all wedding questions. My wedding is in 6 weeks and she hasn't picked up her dress that came in a week ago.
My mother and bridesmaids are very upset with her becuase she didn't do anything for a shower and won't return their calls or emails about it.
This weekend was my last straw. I threw a BBQ for my wedding party. She asked Friday night if she could come early and help, I said that I would love her to. the BBQ started at one and she showed up at like 1:20. Not a big deal, however she stated that she had the flu (but looked fine). About a half hour in she decided to have about 4 jellow shots (who has jello shots when they have the flu) then left shortly after that to go to bed.
While she was there I tried to get a feel for what was going on and asked her if she wanted to see what I had made for the wedding. She agreed but didn't pay attention and just said yup yup. After showing her three things I was certian she wasn't interested and put it all away.
I am so stressed out about her even showing up or ruining my day. I have thought a lot about this and I think I am going to ask her to step down or not be in the wedding.
What are your thoughts or sugguestions????