Ok kind of long.
Fi has a friend who proposed the same day we got engaged, and I have constantly felt like there was competition between FI's friend's FI lets name her L, and I.
She is always asking how much i spend on things and what I am doing for certain details and then she tells me what she is doing, when I don't even ask becaus ei know everyone's wedding is a reflection of their own style and personality.
Anyways we are civil to eachother and I try my best to avoid wedding conversation but I invited her to my bridal shower and stagette. She said she could come and then the day of the texted me and said that she "misread" her schedule (which is set shift work at the hospital. so needless to say she didn't come.
I just got an invitation to her birdal shower and I don't really want to go.... but I feel as if I probably should... I don't have any excuses.... pooo....