Hump Day 20 Q's - Lurkers come out and play!

mgoss228 · April 2011

This week we are focusing on the "earlier" wedding planning aspects. I'm hoping that I can lure a few lurkers to start posting

I know there has to be some more late-2011 or 2012 Brides out there in Western Washington!

1. How long have you been engaged?

2. How did your FI/DH propose?

3. What kind of cut is your e-ring stone?

4. What kind of wedding dress do/did you want before you started dress shopping?

5. What kind of dress did you end up with?

6. How many dresses did you try on? Estimate if necessary.

7. How many venues did you look at before you signed your contract with the venue chose?

8. How many photogs did you meet with before you signed a contract with the photog you chose?

9. Who was the first person you asked to be in your WP (or who your FI asked if he asked before you)? This can be MOH, BM, GM, FG, RB, etc you don't have to give your attendant's name, just describe relationship and role in WP.

10. How many WPs have you been in before?

11. If you have been in a WP before, did it influence with what you want included/not included in your wedding? Describe!

12. How many bridal mags do you have?

13. When you first got engaged, did any family/friends give you any kind of Bridal gifts? i.e. magazine, books, planner, stuff to help with planning

14. Do you generally like your FMIL/FFIL?

15. Do you have any FSILs or FBILs?

16. What is your relationship like with your FSILs/FBILs?

17. Have your FMIL/FFIL met your parents yet?

18. If so, what was the encounter like? i.e. in a restaurant, at FILs home, lunch, dinner, etc

19. How did you introduce your FI to your parents?

20. How were you introduced to your FI's parents?

mgoss228 · April 2011

1. How long have you been engaged?
As of today, EXACTLY 18 months!

2. How did your FI/DH propose?
He proposed on his birthday, the only "special day" I wasn't going to guilt trip him about proposing after 5 1/2 years together. He proposed after we came home from dinner at a Steak Restaurant in Bellevue. He opened his presents, he said there was one more present that needed to be opened, but it was for both of us. He left me sitting on a chair in the livingroom, and went into our bedroom and got the ringbox from his side of the closet. Then he came back to the livingroom and got on one knee, and the rest is history! I don't remember AT ALL what he said, and neither does he

3. What kind of cut is your e-ring stone?
It is a Round Cut diamond.

4. What kind of wedding dress do/did you want before you started dress shopping?
I wanted an all lace, full A-Line dress with a V-Neck and no Train and no beading.

5. What kind of dress did you end up with?
An all lace and tulle ballgown with spaghetti straps and a 6-8 foot long train, and a whole lot of beading in the bodice and scattered throughout the skirt.

6. How many dresses did you try on? Estimate if necessary.
Probably somewhere around 15 dresses total.

7. How many venues did you look at before you signed your contract with the venue chose?
Three

8. How many photogs did you meet with before you signed a contract with the photog you chose?
Two, both were really popular with this board and had good reviews, so I didn't have to research too many.

9. Who was the first person you asked to be in your WP (or who your FI asked if he asked before you)? This can be MOH, BM, GM, FG, RB, etc you don't have to give your attendant's name, just describe relationship and role in WP.
I asked my OOT MOH, I've known her for about 20 years (since we were in 1st Grade).

10. How many WPs have you been in before?
Just one, last summer.

11. If you have been in a WP before, did it influence with what you want included/not included in your wedding? Describe!
It made me want to have my BMs all in different styles of BM dresses. I am super busty and the dress that all the BMs in the wedding I was in had to wear was a short, strapless dress, and I was showing HELLA cleavage. So my girls got to pick a style of dress that complimented their body type.

12. How many bridal mags do you have?
10-12, I think

13. When you first got engaged, did any family/friends give you any kind of Bridal gifts? i.e. magazine, books, planner, stuff to help with planning
I got some bridal mags, DIY books, and ceremony readings books

14. Do you generally like your FMIL/FFIL?
For the most part, but I am happy that they live on the other side of the country.

15. Do you have any FSILs or FBILs?
1 FSIL

16. What is your relationship like with your FSILs/FBILs?
She's 6 years older than me, so we kind of have a generation gap. But we get along for the most part. I do wish SHE didn't live on the other side of the country.

17. Have your FMIL/FFIL met your parents yet?
FMIL met my parents for the first time last year in March.

18. If so, what was the encounter like? i.e. in a restaurant, at FILs home, lunch, dinner, etc
We brought her up to check out the venue and see where I grew up. And we stopped by my mom's house and chatted for a bit, both of my parents happened to be there that time/day.

19. How did you introduce your FI to your parents?
It was the day he picked me up to drive us to Canada for NYE in 2006 (I was 20 then and couldn't go to the bars here). We went to a restaurant to eat dinner with my parents near my hometown.

20. How were you introduced to your FI's parents?
We flew to their house during Spring Break 2005, and stayed with them for a week. We had been dating for about a year at that point, and I guess his mom really wanted to meet me and make sure I wasn't some stupid skank

EMTmommy · April 2011

1. How long have you been engaged?
A couple days shy of four months.
2. How did your FI/DH propose?
We were at my grandma's house on Christmas eve. After everyone had opened all of their gifts, my mom announced to my family that there was one more gift to open. He got down on one knee and proposed. My uncle got it all on video.
3. What kind of cut is your e-ring stone?
My original e-ring was all round cut, but my current one has round cut and princess cut.
4. What kind of wedding dress do/did you want before you started dress shopping?
Right now I want an a-line with a dropped waist and some beading.
5. What kind of dress did you end up with?
Haven't purchased one yet.
6. How many dresses did you try on? Estimate if necessary.
Circumstances haven't been right to try on any dresses yet.
7. How many venues did you look at before you signed your contract with the venue chose?
So far haven't looked at any, been too busy. Have done a ton of research though, and have narrowed it down to a half-dozen.
8. How many photogs did you meet with before you signed a contract with the photog you chose?
We have a coworker who also has a photog business on the side. We both love her work and it was assumed from the beginning that she'll be doing our wedding.
9. Who was the first person you asked to be in your WP (or who your FI asked if he asked before you)? This can be MOH, BM, GM, FG, RB, etc you don't have to give your attendant's name, just describe relationship and role in WP.
I asked my very closest friend (since the 6th grade) to be my MOH. It was a nerve-wracking two weeks waiting for the letter/card to make it halfway across the world to get to her. FI asked his close friend to be his BM, at work...so not special, but that's men for ya...
10. How many WPs have you been in before?
One.
11. If you have been in a WP before, did it influence with what you want included/not included in your wedding? Describe!
Somewhat. Her wedding was completely different from what I envision mine to be like.
12. How many bridal mags do you have?
Umm, about 30 pounds worth.
13. When you first got engaged, did any family/friends give you any kind of Bridal gifts? i.e. magazine, books, planner, stuff to help with planning
Nope.
14. Do you generally like your FMIL/FFIL?
LOVE my FFIL. I will have no trouble calling him dad. FMIL, I get along with well enough and like her.
15. Do you have any FSILs or FBILs?
FSIL
16. What is your relationship like with your FSILs/FBILs?
Friendly, but not very close because she lives in TX.
17. Have your FMIL/FFIL met your parents yet?

My mom has met my FFIL.
18. If so, what was the encounter like? i.e. in a restaurant, at FILs home, lunch, dinner, etc
Both my mom and FFIL stayed at our house for four days during FI birthday celebration week.
19. How did you introduce your FI to your parents?
Took him with me to a pig roast.
20. How were you introduced to your FI's parents?

We took the 8 hour road trip to stay at his parents house for a week. So it was just showing up at their doorstep and introductions.

sofiabrian · April 2011

1. How long have you been engaged?

8.5 months

2. How did your FI/DH propose?

We went to Napa for my birthday. Day started out with hot air balloon ride, champagne brunch, then we went wine tasting. We stopped at a winery where he proposed!

3. What kind of cut is your e-ring stone?

Round cut diamond

4. What kind of wedding dress do/did you want before you started dress shopping?

I was thinking something with slight off the shoulder straps, but when I tried it on, it just didn't look right on me. Still think the look is beautiful, but I went a different way.

5. What kind of dress did you end up with?

Strapless, sweetheart neckline, A-line with asymmetric ruching, and beading details.

6. How many dresses did you try on? Estimate if necessary.

Maybe 20

7. How many venues did you look at before you signed your contract with the venue chose?

We only looked at one!

8. How many photogs did you meet with before you signed a contract with the photog you chose?

Ha! I didn't "meet" with any. Talked with 2 over the phone, and went with the one who had amazing reviews!

9. Who was the first person you asked to be in your WP (or who your FI asked if he asked before you)? This can be MOH, BM, GM, FG, RB, etc you don't have to give your attendant's name, just describe relationship and role in WP.

I asked my MOH. Her and I met while we were both living in Europe. Best long distance friendship.

10. How many WPs have you been in before?

One. My MOH's!

11. If you have been in a WP before, did it influence with what you want included/not included in your wedding? Describe!

Not so much what to include or not, but the whole idea of "don't sweat the small stuff!" Even though there may have been some Oops moments, nobody but the WP knew!

12. How many bridal mags do you have?

I have one wedding flower magazine, and two bridal books.

13. When you first got engaged, did any family/friends give you any kind of Bridal gifts? i.e. magazine, books, planner, stuff to help with planning

FMIL gave me a wedding planner (which I didn't use ).

14. Do you generally like your FMIL/FFIL?

They are so wonderful! I got very lucky!

15. Do you have any FSILs or FBILs?

Yes, one of each

16. What is your relationship like with your FSILs/FBILs?

I have a great relationship with both. FSIL took a bit longer to warm up, but it was probably hard for her to "let go" of her big brother...

17. Have your FMIL/FFIL met your parents yet?

Yes

18. If so, what was the encounter like? i.e. in a restaurant, at FILs home, lunch, dinner, etc

The encounter was awesome. We joked and referred to it as Meet the Fockers! My parents and g'parents came out to Florida for Thanksgiving at FILs house! They get along so well!!

19. How did you introduce your FI to your parents?

Ha!! FI flew out to Seattle. He was coming from NC, and I was coming from DC. We were supposed to meeting in Denver and fly in on the same flight. His first flight was delayed, and he was rerouted to Amarillo, then Denver, the Las Vegas (were he slept in the airport). I introduced him as he walked into my parents house!

20. How were you introduced to your FI's parents?

FI had finished TBS in Quantico, and his family was having a congratulatory dinner for him. I met is parents, g'parents, siblings, cousins, and some other folk.

meganhardan · April 2011

1. How long have you been engaged?
8 months

2. How did your FI/DH propose?
We took a walk on the beach at Alki like we always do, but that time he proposed

3. What kind of cut is your e-ring stone?
Round

4. What kind of wedding dress do/did you want before you started dress shopping?
Sweetheart neckline, satin, embellishments.

5. What kind of dress did you end up with?
Pretty much the same except organza instead of satin (way too heavy!) And the design at the bottom is something I probably never would have picked before I tried it on. And I didn't think I would get a corset dress, but I loved how flattering it was!

6. How many dresses did you try on? Estimate if necessary.
Probably about 8?

7. How many venues did you look at before you signed your contract with the venue chose?
Just one. I browsed a ton online, but we had a pretty strict budget and had a friend who got us a member discount at ours, so I didn't want to go to any others and get my hopes up!

8. How many photogs did you meet with before you signed a contract with the photog you chose?
Just one. She's a friend of my sisters, so it was a no-brainer.

9. Who was the first person you asked to be in your WP (or who your FI asked if he asked before you)? This can be MOH, BM, GM, FG, RB, etc you don't have to give your attendant's name, just describe relationship and role in WP.
I guess my MOH, who is also my twin sister, but she already knew/blackmailed me into picking her

10. How many WPs have you been in before?
None! Either I have no friends, or am just the first of mine to get married It makes me so sad that I have never experienced it from that sad, and I feel like i have NO clue what I'm doing!

11. If you have been in a WP before, did it influence with what you want included/not included in your wedding? Describe!
Man, I can't answer that one. What I will say though is that I'm glad I've lurked on the knot enough to know some of the things NOT to do.

12. How many bridal mags do you have?
About a dozen.

13. When you first got engaged, did any family/friends give you any kind of Bridal gifts? i.e. magazine, books, planner, stuff to help with planning
My sister bought me a planner, and then I bought myself all the magazines.

14. Do you generally like your FMIL/FFIL?
I love her to death, but have to admit she can drive me crazy. We need a little more distance I think

15. Do you have any FSILs or FBILs?
I have two FSIL's, one is married, so I guess that makes him my FBIL. FI also has two half sisters who are younger than me, but they live on the East Coast so we don't see them much, and it's kind of a complicated situation.

16. What is your relationship like with your FSILs/FBILs?
We are pretty close and get along really well. I am 8-10 years younger than them, so there is a little generation gap and they both have kids, but we still make it work. They are both BM's. FBIL Is my FI's BM, so obviously they get along really well.

17. Have your FMIL/FFIL met your parents yet?
FMIL has met my parents. FFIL hasn't yet. As far as I know he's not coming to the wedding, so I have no idea if they ever will meet.

18. If so, what was the encounter like? i.e. in a restaurant, at FILs home, lunch, dinner, etc
FI and I bottled wine for the wedding with my parents and FMIL. It was pretty laid back, we went for happy hour afterwards.

19. How did you introduce your FI to your parents?
We went to dinner with them a few months after FI and I started dating (it got serious pretty fast).

20. How were you introduced to your FI's parents?
FMIL and FSIL came over to FI's house for a game (maybe it was apple cup--not really sure) not long after we started dating. I met FFIL and his wife and FI's half sisters this summer when they were in town.

Tbird87 · April 2011

1. How long have you been engaged?

2 years and 4 days (not that i'm counting

)

2. How did your FI/DH propose?

In the chapel at our undergrad university

3. What kind of cut is your e-ring stone?

princess

4. What kind of wedding dress do/did you want before you started dress shopping?

mermaid/trumpet

5. What kind of dress did you end up with?

same

6. How many dresses did you try on? Estimate if necessary.

7 i think

7. How many venues did you look at before you signed your contract with the venue chose?

3

8. How many photogs did you meet with before you signed a contract with the photog you chose?

2

9. Who was the first person you asked to be in your WP (or who your FI asked if he asked before you)? This can be MOH, BM, GM, FG, RB, etc you don't have to give your attendant's name, just describe relationship and role in WP.

My sisters (who are BM's)

10. How many WPs have you been in before?

none

11. If you have been in a WP before, did it influence with what you want included/not included in your wedding? Describe!
na

12. How many bridal mags do you have?

5

13. When you first got engaged, did any family/friends give you any kind of Bridal gifts? i.e. magazine, books, planner, stuff to help with planning

yes, wedding planners and dress catalogues

14. Do you generally like your FMIL/FFIL?

about 60% of the time

15. Do you have any FSILs or FBILs?

yes one FSIL

16. What is your relationship like with your FSILs/FBILs?

Super well, she is like a sister to me

17. Have your FMIL/FFIL met your parents yet?
yes

18. If so, what was the encounter like? i.e. in a restaurant, at FILs home, lunch, dinner, etc

dinner, i think, i can't totaly remember, it was like 8 years ago!

19. How did you introduce your FI to your parents?

My mom taught at our HS, he was my mom's student. Can't remember how I introduced him to my dad

20. How were you introduced to your FI's parents?

at a super awkward holiday dinner

Sharingourlove · April 2011

1. How long have you been engaged?
One year next month

2. How did your FI/DH propose?
He proposed on my birthday along the Ruston Way waterfront at sunset with M&M's. He'd been giving me some all day that said "Happy Birthday" then offered me more at the water but they were a different color and had "Will you marry me" on them. His original plan was to propose on the tall ship we'd sailed on that day but they were in his coat pocket and he didn't take his coat.

3. What kind of cut is your e-ring stone?
Fire opal

4. What kind of wedding dress do/did you want before you started dress shopping?
Something that I could alter and wear again for special occasions that had sleeves.

5. What kind of dress did you end up with?
Ivory and gold with chiffon overlay and sleeless w/a train

6. How many dresses did you try on? Estimate if necessary.
Around 18

7. How many venues did you look at before you signed your contract with the venue chose?
Around 8 (actually had one booked but decided it was too DIY for us)

8. How many photogs did you meet with before you signed a contract with the photog you chose?
One

9. Who was the first person you asked to be in your WP (or who your FI asked if he asked before you)? This can be MOH, BM, GM, FG, RB, etc you don't have to give your attendant's name, just describe relationship and role in WP.
Sister who is MOH

10. How many WPs have you been in before?
Two

11. If you have been in a WP before, did it influence with what you want included/not included in your wedding? Describe!
Not really, we're just doing what we like. If it influenced at all it was to keep things simple! LOL

12. How many bridal mags do you have?
Two

13. When you first got engaged, did any family/friends give you any kind of Bridal gifts? i.e. magazine, books, planner, stuff to help with planning
My sister/MOH was going to get me Brides Magazine but I ordered it before she did! A friend also gave me a book about budget weddings.

14. Do you generally like your FMIL/FFIL?
Both are deceased

FI mom died shortly after we met so I never got to meet her.

15. Do you have any FSILs or FBILs?
2 FBIL's

16. What is your relationship like with your FSILs/FBILs?
FI doesn't talk to one of them and the other is okay but I wouldn't trust him and neither does FI.

17. Have your FMIL/FFIL met your parents yet?
N/A

18. If so, what was the encounter like? i.e. in a restaurant, at FILs home, lunch, dinner, etc
N/A

19. How did you introduce your FI to your parents?
It was on Valentine's Day and we stopped by to see my mom (she was in an adult living home and dad is deceased). She was in bed, the room smelled and she wasn't very aware of things. The day before he had told me he loved me and I guess he does because he didn't flinch with what the meeting was like. (We've since moved mom to one of my sisters homes and she is a totally different person, articulate, engaging, the mom I wanted to him to meet - very grateful that the change has happened.)

20. How were you introduced to your FI's parents?
N/A

whifflegirl · April 2011

1. How long have you been engaged?
A little over a month now

2. How did your FI/DH propose?
It was just the two of us alone in a park on a rainy day. We had a little BBQ afterward. It was perfect for us.

3. What kind of cut is your e-ring stone?
Is it weird that I don't know anything about cuts of diamonds? I have no clue what cut it is.

4. What kind of wedding dress do/did you want before you started dress shopping?
All I know is that I am not going to get strapless.

5. What kind of dress did you end up with?
I've yet to go shopping.

6. How many dresses did you try on? N/A

7. How many venues did you look at before you signed your contract with the venue chose?
Haven't actually looked at any, but there are two that are high on our list

8. How many photogs did you meet with before you signed a contract with the photog you chose?
N/A yet

9. Who was the first person you asked to be in your WP (or who your FI asked if he asked before you)? This can be MOH, BM, GM, FG, RB, etc you don't have to give your attendant's name, just describe relationship and role in WP.
I haven't actually asked yet, but I know who will be on my side. He's still working on figuring out his side.

10. How many WPs have you been in before?
3, all family

11. If you have been in a WP before, did it influence with what you want included/not included in your wedding? Describe!
All I really learned from being in wedding parties is that the little details really don't matter. Shoes matching? Not needed. The perfect flowers? No one notices. Having your loved ones watch you marry the one you love is what is important. My one thing I will be sure to do is to make sure the wedding party has lunch during all the prep the day of. I was in one wedding in which I had a muffin for breakfast and no lunch since we got so busy. I actually thought I was going to pass out while standing up in the wedding. Not fun in four inch heels!

12. How many bridal mags do you have?
0

13. When you first got engaged, did any family/friends give you any kind of Bridal gifts? i.e. magazine, books, planner, stuff to help with planning
Just words of advice to put our personalities into the wedding

14. Do you generally like your FMIL/FFIL?
Adore them

15. Do you have any FSILs or FBILs?
A bunch of them

16. What is your relationship like with your FSILs/FBILs?
Some live far away, so I don't know them well, but I like and get along with all of them. One of them even picks on me as if I'm already his sister. Of course, I pick right back.

17. Have your FMIL/FFIL met your parents yet?
Nope. They're all of the opinion that they have their own in-laws already. As my mom says, "They'll be your in-laws, not mine." His mom has said the same thing. They don't need to be best friends with each other. I don't see anything wrong with their way of thinking, seeing as though both sets of our parents have been married 35+ years. They must know something. The moms, however, are likely to come with us/meet us to visit venues, so they'll get to meet at least once before the rehearsal.

18. If so, what was the encounter like? i.e. in a restaurant, at FILs home, lunch, dinner, etc
N/A

19. How did you introduce your FI to your parents?
I don't remember how he was introduced to my parents. All I really remember is that they've loved him from the beginning. It was either the time at Red Robin that we met them or it was when we drove down to their house, but I'm not sure.

20. How were you introduced to your FI's parents?
We walked into their house and said hi. There wasn't anything at all dramatic or traumatic about it.

geminijen27 · April 2011

1. How long have you been engaged?
Since May 2010 - so almost a year!
2. How did your FI/DH propose?
On vacation in Puerto Vallarta ... it was on our 1 year anniversary of meeting. And a surprise!

3. What kind of cut is your e-ring stone?
Oval
4. What kind of wedding dress do/did you want before you started dress shopping?
I thought I wanted a halter, perhaps with beading on bottom
5. What kind of dress did you end up with?
Sweetheart cut, with a halter strap to add on for reception
6. How many dresses did you try on? Estimate if necessary.
A dozen? Mine was the 2nd ... so it all went downhill after there.

7. How many venues did you look at before you signed your contract with the venue chose?
2
8. How many photogs did you meet with before you signed a contract with the photog you chose?
Just 1 - we booked her after meeting only her.
9. Who was the first person you asked to be in your WP (or who your FI asked if he asked before you)? This can be MOH, BM, GM, FG, RB, etc you don't have to give your attendant's name, just describe relationship and role in WP.
MOH - she's my BFF, so she knew, but I made her a scrapbook filled with memories and pictures to make it official
10. How many WPs have you been in before?
6
11. If you have been in a WP before, did it influence with what you want included/not included in your wedding? Describe!
Sort of ... more along the ideas of what we didn't want to do ... i.e. same dresses for all BMs.
12. How many bridal mags do you have?
A dozen?
13. When you first got engaged, did any family/friends give you any kind of Bridal gifts? i.e. magazine, books, planner, stuff to help with planning
I received magazines from a couple friends.
14. Do you generally like your FMIL/FFIL?
Yes, very much!
15. Do you have any FSILs or FBILs?
1 F(step)SIL and 1 F(step)BIL ... but they're not really part of FI's life
16. What is your relationship like with your FSILs/FBILs?
Haven't met F(step)BIL... only met F(step)SIL a couple times - so non-existant
17. Have your FMIL/FFIL met your parents yet?
Yes, shortly after we got engaged
18. If so, what was the encounter like? i.e. in a restaurant, at FILs home, lunch, dinner, etc
My mom and stepdad had my dad and stepmom and FI's mom and stepdad over for dinner - it was nice, not too awkward.
19. How did you introduce your FI to your parents?
I don't remember!
20. How were you introduced to your FI's parents?
It was 4th of July, so ~2 months after we met, at a 4th of July party ... his WHOLE family were there!

Altoclef14 · April 2011

This is my first post, so we'll see how this goes... :-)
1. How long have you been engaged?
Since Sept. 2010-- can't believe it was that long ago. Won't be getting married until July 2012, though.
2. How did your FI/DH propose?
During a surprise weekend trip to Victoria, BC. It was at the end of an afternoon trip to Butchart Gardens, and he had to find the "perfect bench" on which to sit at the end of the day. People just kept walking by, though, so we both were giggling, and I had a good idea of what was going on.
3. What kind of cut is your e-ring stone?
Oval, I think. It belonged to my grandmother who passed away last year. I don't know very much about diamonds, so I'm so happy that it has sentimental value.
4. What kind of wedding dress do/did you want before you started dress shopping?
Maybe one strap? Something different... but not too different.
5. What kind of dress did you end up with?
No dress yet!
6. How many dresses did you try on? Estimate if necessary.
Only one-- my older sister's to see how I liked it. There will be many more to try on.
7. How many venues did you look at before you signed your contract with the venue chose?
2
8. How many photogs did you meet with before you signed a contract with the photog you chose?
Two. We had a third in mind, but we only ended up speaking with two because we liked the second one so much..
9. Who was the first person you asked to be in your WP (or who your FI asked if he asked before you)? This can be MOH, BM, GM, FG, RB, etc you don't have to give your attendant's name, just describe relationship and role in WP.
My sister, MOH. I didn't even have to ask her. When I called her to say that we were engaged, I started to ask, "will you be my..." and she said, "of course!"
10. How many WPs have you been in before?
4-- two for family and two friends
11. If you have been in a WP before, did it influence with what you want included/not included in your wedding? Describe!
A bit. I live across the country from most of my family and friends, so I want to make everything very simple. We're limiting the number of people in the WP (only two BMs and two GM).
12. How many bridal mags do you have?
Six? The Bridal Show was great for picking up free mags!
13. When you first got engaged, did any family/friends give you any kind of Bridal gifts? i.e. magazine, books, planner, stuff to help with planning
Some college friends got me a used copy of "The Idiot's Guide to Getting Married" from Half Price Books!
14. Do you generally like your FMIL/FFIL?
Generally... His parents are divorced, and I'm closer to his mom
15. Do you have any FSILs or FBILs?
2 FSIL and 1 FBIL
16. What is your relationship like with your FSILs/FBILs?
Very good! We see his family all the time since they're so close, and I've been out for drinks with my FSILs a couple of times. They're a little older, so it's fun to get their advice and insight on the family.
17. Have your FMIL/FFIL met your parents yet?
Nope... But my Dad did meet one of the FSILs (we're building toward a formal family meeting) (my mom passed away when I was younger, so I only have to worry about introducing them to my Dad!)
18. If so, what was the encounter like? i.e. in a restaurant, at FILs home, lunch, dinner, etc
We had lunch with the oldest FSIL when my Dad was in town visiting. She works near where we were hanging out for the day.
19. How did you introduce your FI to your parents?
Brunch at the Cheesecake Factory (I never knew that the Cheesecake Factory had breakfast until we needed to find an easy place to meet up with my Dad for breakfast when he was in town). We had been dating for about four months.
20. How were you introduced to your FI's parents?
One our second date at a Mariners game. I was introduced to FFIL, FSIL, FBIL, and Future nephew. That was almost five years ago. A nice easy way to meet the fam! His sister had free box seats!

kinmir30 · April 2011

I've sorta been a lurker lately. haha. Student teaching is SOOOOOO much work. Exhuasting. Most exhausting thing I have ever done in my life. So, sadly, wedding has gone on the back burner....even though we are LESSSSSS than 3 months away!!!!! ahhhhhhh so nervewracking!

1. How long have you been engaged?
1 year and 3.5 months

2. How did your FI/DH propose?
He actually just proposed at home unexpectly one night (christmas eve eve). He chose to do it at home because it was our first place together and it just felt right he said. It was perfect just like that!

3. What kind of cut is your e-ring stone?
no idea.....not good at that sorta thing.

4. What kind of wedding dress do/did you want before you started dress shopping?
a very simple satin white dress. I never really liked lots of sparkles/beading etc. I thought I wanted a simple dress b/c to me that was gorgeous....

5. What kind of dress did you end up with?
A dress with lots of sparkles and beading!!!! ahahah. I hated all the plain dresses. I really think you should go into dress shopping with no expectations, because you might limit your choices....

6. How many dresses did you try on? Estimate if necessary.
10-15

7. How many venues did you look at before you signed your contract with the venue chose?
uhhhhhh I think my venue was 3rd we looked at in person, although I prob looked at EVERY single venue there is online until I found mine.

8. How many photogs did you meet with before you signed a contract with the photog you chose?
1. They were the 1st photogs I ever spoke with and I fell in love right away.........it was hard to break that.

9. Who was the first person you asked to be in your WP (or who your FI asked if he asked before you)? This can be MOH, BM, GM, FG, RB, etc you don't have to give your attendant's name, just describe relationship and role in WP.
FI asked one of his groomsmen first. I asked my whole BP at once viz bridesmaid cards.

10. How many WPs have you been in before?
zero

11. If you have been in a WP before, did it influence with what you want included/not included in your wedding? Describe!
N/A

12. How many bridal mags do you have?
less than 10...........being in grad school doesnt allow for much "fun" reading.....

13. When you first got engaged, did any family/friends give you any kind of Bridal gifts? i.e. magazine, books, planner, stuff to help with planning
nope

14. Do you generally like your FMIL/FFIL?
Yep! Although I haven't met her in person yet.....or talked on the phone....only via FB. She lives in NY. =/ ................no FFIL.

15. Do you have any FSILs or FBILs?
NOPE!!!!

16. What is your relationship like with your FSILs/FBILs?
N/A

17. Have your FMIL/FFIL met your parents yet?
Nope......and they may not. I may not have any parents at the wedding and FI's mom will be there for sure. But she may be the only parent attending.

18. If so, what was the encounter like? i.e. in a restaurant, at FILs home, lunch, dinner, etc
N/A

19. How did you introduce your FI to your parents?
FI met my mom shortly after we started dating at my mom's house....don't remember the specifics.
FI met my dad about 4 months after we started dating when we took a road trip to Vegas (where my dad lives)

20. How were you introduced to your FI's parents?
no real introduction yet....

erynnhanson · May 2011

1. How long have you been engaged?
Since June 22. So, 11 months.
2. How did your FI/DH propose?
We were at our house getting ready to go to europe and he told me to close my eyes and got down on 1 knee and when I opened my eyes he proposed!
3. What kind of cut is your e-ring stone?
Cushion
4. What kind of wedding dress do/did you want before you started dress shopping?
Big Ball Gown
5. What kind of dress did you end up with?
It is considered an A-Line but I would say more like a fit and flare.
6. How many dresses did you try on? Estimate if necessary.
Maybe 14 in two trips, I stopped after I had it on.
7. How many venues did you look at before you signed your contract with the venue chose?
None
8. How many photogs did you meet with before you signed a contract with the photog you chose?
I have only met with one so far and we are meeting with another soon.
9. Who was the first person you asked to be in your WP (or who your FI asked if he asked before you)? This can be MOH, BM, GM, FG, RB, etc you don't have to give your attendant's name, just describe relationship and role in WP.
He asked his attendants first I think it was his best man (brother), I asked one of my bridesmaids first.
10. How many WPs have you been in before?
4 but two of them I was a flower girl.
11. If you have been in a WP before, did it influence with what you want included/not included in your wedding? Describe!
Not really, I think going to weddings have influenced me more.
12. How many bridal mags do you have?
2
13. When you first got engaged, did any family/friends give you any kind of Bridal gifts? i.e. magazine, books, planner, stuff to help with planning
No actually, a planning book would have been nice.
14. Do you generally like your FMIL/FFIL?
I do.
15. Do you have any FSILs or FBILs?
I have both.
16. What is your relationship like with your FSILs/FBILs?
Not close because they both live out of town but when they are in town we get along great.
17. Have your FMIL/FFIL met your parents yet?
Yes
18. If so, what was the encounter like? We had a Christmas party one year when my FFIL was in town and I hosted a brunch when my FMIL was in town.
19. How did you introduce your FI to your parents?
I honestly don't remember, it may have been a camping trip.
20. How were you introduced to your FI's parents?
I was invited over to my FFIL's house for dinner as a first date and I went to my FMIL's house to visit for a weekend.

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