I have never posted here before, but I really don't know what to do. My bridesmaids and I went dress shopping a couple months ago and everyone chose their dress. I had them do different dresses but the same color, as everyone has extremely different body types. It was nice at the bridal shop because everyone could try the dress on and make sure it fit, then put theirs on file at the store. Easy right?
One of my bridesmaids called me the other day saying she still had not bought her dress but just didn't have time to go to the shop. (Really?) She said as an alternative, she was going to purchase one online. This would not be a huge deal, except she has decided to buy it a size too small with the intent to lose weight. Also, she said they don't have this new dress in her size.
For some people I am sure this works, but she is a habitual yo-yo dieter who constantly loses 5 pound and gains 10 back in a week. Should I step in and tell her to just go get the original one? I have tried talking to her but she keeps saying she "wouldn't buy a dress if she didn't think he could fit into it." What do I do?
Once there were two women, who never knew each other
One you do not remember, the other you call Mother
Two different lives shaped to make you one
One became your guiding star, the other became your sun
The first one gave you life, the other taught you to live it
The first gave you a need for love, the second was there to give it
One gave you a nationality, the other gave you a name
One gave you talent, the other gave you aim
One gave you emotion, the other calmed your fears
One saw your first sweet smile, the other dried your tears
One sought for you a home, that she could not provide
The other prayed for a child, and her hope was not denied
And now you ask me through your tears,
The age-old question unanswered through the years
Heredity or environment, which are you a product of?
Neither my darling, neither
Just two different kinds of love.