Have you and your husband/Fi ever been on a couples retreat? My Fi and I would like to do pre-marital counseling of some sort, but everything we've found is either religiously based (and we're not "religious" per say), is meant for large groups, or is just an hour or so a week in a stuffy office. I've found a few ideas for things that could fit what we're looking for, but I was just wondering if anyone else had any other resources.
One site I've found that seemed perfect for our needs/wants is a married couple in Vermont and you and your SO spend a few hours a day with them (2-on-2) discussing things normal "counseling sessions" would include, except this is much more intimate. You meet in their home and you do planned activities with this couple and apart from them. I think this is totally great, but it costs $5,000 and we can't really afford it. Does anyone know of any other resources like this?
www.marriagequest.org
or
www.lifemarriageretreats.com