I am haivng disagrement on who gets invited to the rehersal dinner. I having our 20-25 member church choir sing at our wedding, and my parents think that we have to invited all of them to the rehersal dinner, i said that i would invite the choir director and make a donation to the church choir. Are they right, do we need to invite all of them with a guest, or am i doing okay with just inviting the choir director and her husband. I wasn't planning on having the church choir at the wedding rehersal, just the choir director and our pianoist. please help.