My fiance's parents are ministers and they started a church. We both have large families in fact our guest list has 150 guests that are just family! We are not inviting many people from the church, basically the new senior ministers and the youth ministers. My fiance's cousin who also attends the same church is getting married 2 months before us. I just found out today that they are not inviting many people from the church either. So relieved we are doing the same things.