So a few weeks ago while cleaning out the basement to renovate he came across his album from his previous wedding. I know he is just keeping it as a keepsake for their son to enjoy one day. So yesterday I couldn't help myself any longer and I looked. I knew from talking to their son that she and I have a lot of similar tastes... he'll know all the words to a song I'm singing along with or knows a show or make comments that his mom does/likes things too. And that's fine, I don't have a problem with that (minus the psycho ex part). I just really don't want to stand in front of a bunch of people who are comparing our wedding with his previous one. My dress is not the same, but similar. The color not the same, but close. Just take the red head out and stick the blond in. Great. Feels REAL special. It has me feeling like I want to just get married and call the wedding off. I just don't want the same people being there and take the same pics in the same style wedding as the one he was already in.... whether he was miserable or not. It is embarrassing for me. And I don't want to do it. I wanted those pictures to be MINE!!!!!!! Am I completely off the deep end here?