My youngest sister found out she was pregnant a few weeks before I got engaged. I was so supportive of her, listened to her cry about it, helped her accept it and be happy about becoming a mom. I never put a negative spin on her situation (who would do that?). We were fine until I went to visit my family Christmas morning, showed them my ring and announced our engagement. She actually walked out and left five minutes later without saying one word to me. I tried to tell myself it's her hormones, I know she loves my fiancé, and under normal circumstances she would be happy for us. So, I left it alone and she texted me a congrats a few days later. When we set the date, which we chose because we both have vacation time picked for September (I have to pick my weeks the year before), she called me hysterically crying and yelling that I was selfish to have my wedding a month after her due date and I was making her a laughingstock. She ended up hanging up on me because I told her I wasn't going to wait another year so she would be comfortable, after she said she wouldn't even go to my wedding. I always assumed if I ever found the one, both my sisters would be standing next to me during my wedding. I asked her if she wanted to be a bridesmaid, told her she would just have to take care of buying her own dress. I told her I understand if she doesnt want to be in it, but I would love to have her with me. We have always gotten along fine, went on vacations together, she talks me through tiffs with my fiancé and is one of the reasons we are together. She accepted, said she wanted to be in the wedding but wouldn't attend the bachelorette party, dress fitting etc. I said ok, that's great. Since then I've overheard her call me "Bridezilla", she told me I should never get pregnant and bring a kid into the world, that I'm not a part of the family and have no relationship with my other sisters kids, (I spend time with at least once a week), etc etc. I try to stay calm with her when she's yelling at me like that, but then she says I'm being condescending. Now she won't talk to me because she says I bring nothing but negativity and stress to her life. I send her a text every couple days telling her I love her just hoping that her emotions will even out soon. At this point, I'm newly engaged, healthy, happy, and excited to be sharing my life with my fiancé, and I find myself crying (I never cry!) over how she is making me feel. I know she's my sister, and I love her, but do I want someone so intent on hurting me in my wedding party? Or do I just put up with it because she's my sister? And my parents are no help, all I get it "well she's pregnant and going through a lot of changes". I'm just afraid I'm not going to get over the way she is attacking me during this otherwise amazing time in my life. Guess I did need to vent, lol