I am a young bride with a big family and a small budget. I will be getting married in the spring of 2014 and have already went to tours. Although the venues have a lot to offer I cannot afford 80 per person especially when i also have other things that tie into a wedding to pay for. I was looking into renting a fancy hall and doing things on my own to be able to include all of our family without sacrificing the look and feel that I want. Does anyone know of or have had a reception in a hall where you took care of everythinbg yourself?