I'm in a tough situation and I could really use some advice. My FI and I are both full-time students. In the graduate program I'm in, we finish our Master's in a calendar year- which for me means that I finish a couple weeks before the wedding. For the most part, Ive been doing the wedding planning myself. My FMIL know how busy I am and has helped with everything I've asked (and more).
My mom on the other hand has been a little difficult to deal with. She and my dad are paying for most of the wedding. But since I'm so short on time with school, I need help with some of the work too. When I asked her to help with the guest list in September, I ended up doing it myself over winter break. We also don't have addresses for guests yet. I asked her to help with that, but a month later she hadn't started. Since I'm taking classes up until the wedding, I'm really worried about stuff like this getting done. When I told her that I was worried about it, she told me I was ungrateful and nasty.
What should I do?