Alright, I'm here to vent and also see if you ladies think I'm out of line or justified in my feelings. Maybe I'm just being a healous twit, but I think I'm right.
FH has a female, married friend who he's had for years. When I first met her, she was very clingy with him (sitting on a counter behind him and wrapping herself around him), but I brushed it off as posturing in front of me, his new lady. Most of his female friends did that to one degree or another when we first got together. However, all of them have stopped that behavior except the woman in question.
She tries to kiss him on the mouth when she greets him. Granted, she does that to other (single) guys (and even ladies) sometimes, but her flirtation with FH is consistent. And she's married! What threw me over the edge was last weekend, at my birthday party, FH was taking pictures of me and the guests. She walks over, takes the camera from him, hands it to me, and has me take a picture of her kissing him on the cheek. How romantic.
When I brought it up to FH, he said he'd try to avoid her advances in the future, but he also said that it's just the way she is. I'm not really willing to accept the "that's the way she is" line about a married woman who insists on touching and flirting with my future husband!
Should I let it go? If not, what do I do? She's part of a group of his friends that I've grown close to and I don't want to start drama, but I'm frustrated. Help!