Bachelorette Party Question - Friend wants to invite one of her friends to my Bachelorette

Re: Bachelorette Party Question - Friend wants to invite one of her friends to my Bachelorette

• Simply Fated member

  

  November 2010

  Who is hosting/organizing the bachlorette party? I would tell your friend to discuss it with the host.
  Honestly, I would feel weird about it, too. Why is your friend insisting on bringing along some random girl?
  I mean, it could end up being the more the merrier, so this could be a good thing.
  

  
  

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• starznangelz member

  

  November 2010

  Thanks for the advice, ladies! I will definitely need to talk to my MOH about that. Maybe she can help me with the answer since she is in charge of the event.
  
  In regards to the questions: My MOH (who does not know M) will be hosting the shower, and allowing us to crash at her apartment. It's going to be dinner with about 5 of us, a few activities, and brunch the next morning. All the girls coming do not know each other (they are my closest friends from different past groups - work, school, etc.), so they will all be in the same boat. M and her friend are attached at the hip and always seem to do everything together. I only know her friend from the brief meeting we had once. I do worry that other good friends who couldn't be invited due to keeping it intimate may be insulted or disappointed if someone I don't know attending instead. But, I don't want to commit an ettiquette faux pas or be unfriendly.

  

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• redheadfsu member

  

  November 2010

  This random friend shouldn't really be invited as only wedding guests should come to pre-wedding parties. Since this is a small bacheloratte party, it would be very strange for her to be there. Have the MOH explain to your friend that it is a small party & they are crashing at her house, so unfortunately no.

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• tpender13 member

  

  November 2010

  M's friend shouldn't be invited. Especially since it's a small, intimate get-together.

  

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• Soon2BMrsClay member

  

  November 2010

  Definitely talk with the host; it's totally weird for randoms to be at your bachelorette.

  

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• M&R7111

  

  November 2010

  In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_bachelorette-party-question-friend-wants-invite-one-of-her-friends-bachelorette?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:5cfd3ee8-8703-4ab1-a474-0d7380541518Post:438be7a3-5abb-407a-a0a9-cbf218ffac13">Re: Bachelorette Party Question - Friend wants to invite one of her friends to my Bachelorette</a>:
  [QUOTE]Thanks for the advice, ladies! I will definitely need to talk to my MOH about that. Maybe she can help me with the answer since she is in charge of the event. In regards to the questions: My MOH (who does not know M) will be hosting the shower, and allowing us to crash at her apartment. It's going to be dinner with about 5 of us, a few activities, and brunch the next morning. All the girls coming do not know each other (they are my closest friends from different past groups - work, school, etc.), so they will all be in the same boat. <strong>M and her friend are attached at the hip and always seem to do everything together.</strong>
  Posted by starznangelz[/QUOTE]
  
  That's strange.  Can't she grow up a bit and do something w/o her friend? 
  
  I wonder if you're going to get a call about possibly squeezing M's friend onto the wedding guest list! 

  

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• starznangelz member

  

  November 2010

  Thanks everyone for your help! One less thing to stress about now... Your advice worked great.

  

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