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September 2012 Weddings

Vent...kinda of long

My FSIL and MIL went with us to the beach with us and has pissed me off that I can not even sleep. My FSIL had been drinking all day. So we all was sleep and because my MIL and FSIL each needs their own room (we had a three bedroom) the kids all had to share the pull out and sofa upfront. So my kids (16, 13,12 16 SD) all just crashed up front. My daughter slept on the couch in the sunroom and my boys and SD crashed on the pull out. My sons are 13,12 and see their stepsister as there sister. Anyway my FSIL started screaming at my SD at1125 about sleeping on the pull out with my sons. She came in our room and told us that we are sorry and that them sleeping there was nasty. I was like what? My children all sleep where they fall sometimes. I have to run them out of my den sometimes when I awake in the morning at homes. My boys are not in the least nasty and my SD have been living with us for 2 years now. They love and treat her as a sister. They argue, fuss, and fights. I told her my boys would never do anything like that or would my SD. I am very pissed she would even think something like that about my boys. I am very offended by the statement. So I got my son (13) out of his sleep and made him sleep with my FI and myself. My FMIL was calling my son a pervert and this was incest. They did not even want my 12 year old to sleep on the floor. So he came in my room and I slept on the floor once the boys fell asleep. Mind you everyone had all there clothes on from where they was playing the Wii and just crashed. I do not get it at all. I am so upset about this whole ordeal. I want to ban them from our life. My FI never woke up from the coma she was in....

Do you think I am wrong for feeling this way or am I not seeing something?
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Re: Vent...kinda of long

  • I am completely speechless! Your FSIL is completely out of her mind and possibly still coming down from the drinking to scream at a child like that. My nephews and nieces crash like that all the time together when they are up late playing. She has no right to yell, scream or anything in that nature to your children when you and your FI said it was fine for them to sleep there anyway and this isn't the first time either. Your FSIL needs to step back and remember that you and your FI are the parents of those children and she is not so what she says does not hold merit in the converstation. I am so sorry you are upset about this and sounds like your FI needs to talk with your FSIL about her behavior and being disrespectful to you and your children.  Hope everything works out for you *hugs, prayers and thoughts*
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  • You are definintely right to be upset by this, that was entirely out of line! I would be upset in that situation too. As PP said, my nieces and nephews crash like that, there is nothing wrong with it. I am sorry you're having to deal with that!
  • Agree with PP that you are 100% right to be mad about that.  That was horribly offensive.  I would tell FI what happened and have your FI talk to FSIL and FMIL about meddling in how you handle your children.
  • That is rough! What an awkward position they put you in! And that was totally incorrect to yell at you, the mother, in front of your children, asleep or not! 
  • Incest??? Nasty? THEY WERE SLEEPING. Gosh, how aweful that someone would say those things to you. Its amazing what a big deal some people make out of nothing. Your FI absolutely should say something to the IL's about this.
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