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Shower question/delema

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My MOH wants to plan a couples shower for our friends and my FILs are going to do one for family (not sure if it is couples or not). We have large families and I am wondering if my FILs should just do one for their side of the family, and I will wait and see if anyone on my side is going to do a family shower. I would feel horrible if my family is left out, just because I feel things should be equal. I really don't care if I get a shower or not, but I don't want to do something with his side and not mine. If that makes sense.

Is three showers too many? I don't want my FILs to pay a ton of money for a huge shower.
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  • gregamyweddinggregamywedding
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    That I am aware of and I could be wrong but I don't thing there is anything wrong with having 3 showers. Lots of girls have multiple showers. I would maybe talk to FIL about what they are wanting for the one they are throwing.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_shower-questiondelema?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:2ec427d7-eed7-4435-a1c9-b105ac393355Post:0bd33915-4748-418d-99fe-a7a51f50cf6f">Re: Shower question/delema</a>:
    [QUOTE]That I am aware of and I could be wrong but I don't thing there is anything wrong with having 3 showers. Lots of girls have multiple showers. I would maybe talk to FIL about what they are wanting for the one they are throwing.
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  • chelseakopperudchelseakopperud
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    3 is totally fine!
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  • daria24daria24 member
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    As long as the guest lists are different 3 is totally fine.
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  • DrPB2b13DrPB2b13 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_shower-questiondelema?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:2ec427d7-eed7-4435-a1c9-b105ac393355Post:9d48e8dc-7da3-4ac5-8613-9da6a5e130d8">Re: Shower question/delema</a>:
    [QUOTE]As long as the guest lists are different 3 is totally fine.
    Posted by daria24[/QUOTE]

    This; if people are invited to more than one, they may get a little put-out due to feeling they now have to get you three gifts (first shower, second shower, and wedding).  If the three guest lists are 100% exclusive, it should be fine.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_shower-questiondelema?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:2ec427d7-eed7-4435-a1c9-b105ac393355Post:9d48e8dc-7da3-4ac5-8613-9da6a5e130d8">Re: Shower question/delema</a>:
    [QUOTE]As long as the guest lists are different 3 is totally fine.
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    Agreed!  Everyone wants to celebrate you!
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  • kelsey+brandonkelsey+brandon
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    Three is totally fine! I might end up having three as well. As long as they're different hosts and different guests lists, it's all good!

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  • sweetcanadian1979sweetcanadian1979
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    would your moh be willing to do one for your family & friends?
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_shower-questiondelema?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:2ec427d7-eed7-4435-a1c9-b105ac393355Post:9c6c9509-a93f-49d1-9d84-12b9861d313a">Re: Shower question/delema</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Shower question/delema : This; if people are invited to more than one, they may get a little put-out due to feeling they now have to get you three gifts (first shower, second shower, and wedding).  If the three guest lists are 100% exclusive, it should be fine.
    Posted by DrPB2b13[/QUOTE]

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