TMI Tuesday QOTD 10.16

fishinflagrl · October 2012

TMI: Do you consider sex good even if you don't orgasm?

fishinflagrl · October 2012

Absolutely. I love pleasing my man. I love sex though... lol

lv2011 · October 2012

Yes. It's such an intensely intimate and physical act to share with another person. As long as it doesn't hurt the whole time, the experience is still awesome.

aro1589 · October 2012

worth it, yes. good, not always. even if I don't I'm still glad we had sex because I love feeling close to my FI and making him feel good. but if I don't orgasm, I wouldn't say the sex was 'good'. It *could* be. sometimes it's good but I just don't. but sometimes it's NOT good and that's why I don't. lol

lehc723 · October 2012

Sure, it definitely can be. Sometimes, like a PP said, it's nice to focus on him. And sometimes, it can feel AWESOME the whole time but due to a variety of circumstances, an o just doesn't happen.

If it didin't happen regularly, that might be another question.

goatlady12 · October 2012

When it doesn't happen the experience is usually still pleasurable. There have been a few times that there was too much alcohol involved and someone ended up with an injury. That's no good.

jessiflower · October 2012

Sex is kinda like pizza...even when its not great....its still good....lol....FI and I joke about this all the time.....lol...

I dont always OG....and its not easy for me to....but it doesn't effect me at all...I just love sex...all the time...lol....FI jokes I'm like the "guy" as in Im always ready for sex...lol...

Ali092011 · October 2012

Whether I have an orgasm or not is not, to me, a measure of how good the sex was. Orgasms are much more important to H than to me.

mrshall1027 · October 2012

Yes, I still love being intimate with FI. I can honestly say that we've never had a bad experience (he's a keeper!) and even if I don't have an O, it's amazing and satisfying to please him.

poison+kisses · October 2012

With H it's still good (I've had other non-O, non-good experiences with others though haha). It's very important to him to get me off, so he always makes sure to do it every time. Any time I can't get off it's my fault though, it's usually because I'll be distracted or stressed about something and not able to focus. I still enjoy the sex though!

pockysquirrel · October 2012

Absolutely. I don't orgasm from intercourse at all, but I don't find it any less satisfying. It's just a slightly different kind of satisfaction.

ivedonethisb4 · October 2012

I don't think the O is what makes the sex good or bad. So yes sex without the O can be good. Is it always good? no..sometimes I'm just not in the mood and its just because I know HE needs it. What makes sex good for me is the intimacy..

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